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Style Lesson 04: Are You Bothered By How You Look Through Their Eyes?
Reconcile How You Think You Look VS. How You Really Look.
You know those “how you think you look” memes?
Basically it’s 2 photos put side by side:
- First photo is how you think you look
- Second photo is how you ACTUALLY look
When it comes to Style, the struggle between “How You Think You Look VS. How You Really Look” is something many people are bothered by.
Stop and really think about it for a second, has any one of these questions crossed your mind?
“What if, really, I look stupid?’
“What if, really, I look ugly?”
“What if, really, I’m boring them to death?”
And this isn’t a new phenomenon, it’s an age-old questions that’s been running through people’s minds for a really long time.
I mean, just check out that 👆little cartoon(see pic above)👆 from 1920!
But have you ever wondered why? Why do we care so much about this?
Why do we lose sleep over how people view us?